change is inevitable.

Things have changed, not tolerance for people who show me they cant & will not go above & beyond for me. I don't need to be blamed & ridiculed for not doing what people assume I'm going to do, be the woman who always goes out of her way, 'just to be nice'. There are few men who have the ability to behave like gentleman anymore. And their are few people who understand what it means to be a friend.

After my big breakup w/ my ex I got a tatto that says,'Change is inevitable' because I knew that our relationship needed a change and that I needed to change. And now I'm a better person for changing & if my ex could've understood that, we'd still be friends. Sometimes looking down at my tattoo, I feel some comfort knowing that change is apart of life & I don't need to be scared. Just like when I found out I had cervical cancer. Change is constant, on going, never ending, inevitable. I fear no break-ups, no cancer, no nothing. There is always a part of myself that doesn't like when things happen & wishes they didn't but it had to.